What are you a pron star? Unless you are having sex more than every day it should last you a week or longer. I doubt the average couple is not having sex every day. If you are having sex at such an extreme rate then maybe you need to slow down or find a way to handle the cost.
We have sex every time we hang out which is at LEAST twice a week. Per time we hang out we have sex at LEAST once.
We often have sex more than once, depending how often we hang out. Not to mention if a condom breaks, you have to change it. If you have to get up and do something right then (someone calls you upstairs), you’ll have to change it. Condoms start to dry up when the sex lasts long, so you’ll have to change it if you don’t have lube or can’t use lube (lube irritates me and I do own the sensitive kind). If the condom slips off, you’ll have to change it. If something happens where he goes soft (an interruption or you accidentally bend it), you may have to change it.
Sometimes we only use like 2 condoms a week, but sometimes we use a whole bunch.
I’m certainly not going to “slow down” on the sex because it is in NO WAY in your place to tell me how often to have sex, the birth control methods I must use, and what I must do if a pregnancy occurs. You do whatever the fuck you want with your body, and ill do whatever the fuck I want.
Welll good for you, You get a camera in that bedroom and you have a career.
But I am not telling you how to have sex, what you should take, or anything of the sort I am just telling you responsible options. But I a mean if you want to live in a fantasy land where you think you have no responsibility to do anything that is your problem. If the world changes and abortion and your free healthcare is gone what are you going to do keep with the same plan have a lot of sex and skip on doing responsible things. It only take one person to change that , it may be me it maybe some one in your family. But you know what years ago two lawyers took advantage of a women’s situation to make abortion legal so you could be irresponsible, two lawyers could make it illegal , tomorrow 4 years ago there was many who never would or didn’t have health care, Now they do. Things change. plus you should always try to succeed with plan A so you don’t have to us plan b
First off, you seem to be shaming the porn industry and people who are sexually active.
And second, you act like I’m not already careful with my “plan A”
Just because I have sex frequently does not make me a porn star??? I would actually love to do a couple pornos here and there, just for the money really.
But I am already being safe. I use non-latex condoms since I react to latex. I use spermicide latex when I’m ovulating plus the day or two before and after. I’m on the pill and set an alarm to take it on the same time every day. Assuming nothing breaks or is forgotten, my chances of getting pregnant per year are .01%
I know my responsibilities. But if I get pregnant I shouldn’t be expected to continue through with my pregnancy. There’s no such thing as someone making me realize differently. Getting an abortion IS taking responsibility for my actions. I am terminating the pregnancy instead of putting myself and the baby into an unhealthy state for 9 months, then being neglectful to my child.
If abortion was illegal, I would take matters into my own hands. I have clinical depression, so if I wasn’t able to abort I may get overly depressed and attempt suicide. That is highly unlikely to happen, but with already being depressed and hormones added its a minor possibility. I currently am getting a handle on my depression but am still recovering.
I would still terminate my pregnancy if it was illegal. Most likely pills. It would be much more painful than an abortion, but I would rather.
Once I decide I am ready for a child, I will have one.
Until then, why don’t you worry about actual world issues and actual lives at risk like children in third world countries and the starving kids in your own city.
Why shouldn’t you be expected to go through with the pregnancy You chose to have sex? You chose to open your body to sperm, that you know are going to try to fertilize your egg. why wouldn’t you be expected to carry to term , even if you are using contraception. If you are so responsible why don’t you do the right thing so you don’t have to kill a child. Getting abortion is not taking responsibility it is getting rid of you responsibility. If I have a job that I don’t think I can do , and I quit it, that is not taking responsibility, that is getting rid of it.
Plus, not being able to take care of your child is not being irresponsible. There are tons of mothers and fathers that work three jobs just so their child can go to school, they are being responsible. If you are so poor that you are living on the street you can give them up for adoption. That is the responsible thing to do. If you are not ready for ether of those, the responsible thing to do is to not risk getting a baby. responsible is nowhere near killing a child.
You are always going to have depression, and it is always going to be worst when pregnant. You need to deal with your depression so you control the depression not the other way around. Even if you have depression out the ass, you taking pill would be stupid since you would die too most likely. And you won’t be able to deiced when you are ready for a child. I much rather pay in taxes to fix your problem rather than support abortion because you are suicidal. Well you know
helping support the birth of children and the health of these mothers will help the mothers and fathers already trying to take care of their children. Abortion doesn’t give mothers financial help , mental help , or medical help. abortion only lets women make the same mistake over again. Abortion only gets rid of a responsibility it doesn’t fix the problem.